I’ve been single most of my life because I felt I had to “help him out” when it came to dating me. Handing myself over on a silver platter by telling guys flat out I was interested in them, pursuing them, calling, texting, asking them on dates, under the guise of being “bold” and “modern”, has never once worked out for me. Ever. Yeah, guys will take anything you hand them for free. All while they are pursuing the women they actually want to date.