This “persecuted” energy needs to be directed towards something healthy, like working to dismantle society’s beliefs and structures about what a “relationship” is supposed to be. The feeling of persecution is valid, mainly in the sense that the general consciousness assumes monogamy is the way we’re supposed to interact with each other. It is the default. But instead of taking action against that concept / belief (telling stories about it, sharing, educating, etc), they act out victimized behaviour, ultimately perpetuating their negative beliefs. You don’t get to claim you’re “so evolved” when you don’t act goddamn evolved!